Baldur’s Gate 3 has the option for players to romance their favorite party members and companions. One of them is Astarion, a vampire spawn for centuries, serving a sadistic master until he was snatched away. If players are swooned by his charms here is a Baldur’s Gate 3 Astarion romance Guide to sweep him off his feet.

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Baldur’s Gate 3 Astarion Romance

“Astarion prowled the night as a vampire spawn for centuries, serving a sadistic master until he was snatched away. Now he can walk in the light and has the chance at a new life, but how long can he keep his past buried?”

Personality

• Astarion is cruel and enjoys making fun of people
• Astarion values personal loyalty due to his circumstances.
• Especially enjoys the suffering of others.
• Focused on his personal survival, Self-interest, and ensured freedom against Cazador.
• The Tadpole nullified his Vampiric Banesmaking him extremely attached to it
• Hates playing as a hero
• To avoid disapproval companion is left in camp

Intro Area/Ravage Beach/Dank Crypt

• Deceive/Intimidate Tieflings 
• Lae’zel to say “please” before freeing her from the cage, attack Tieflings
• join Lae’zel against the Tieflings if you persuade them to free her.
• Choose to attack Gimblebock and the gang near the ruins.

Druid Grove

• Refusing to help Zevlor when he asks for the Party to Mediate with Kagha
• Tell Auntie Ethel about a Tadpole in your head in the Druid Grove.
• Let Arka kill Sazza in the Druid Grove’s Makeshift Prison.
• Tell Astarion that the refugees are desperate and will do anything after Arka kills Sazza.
• Tell Kagha the Archdruid you enjoyed her show after she asks if you think she’s a monster.
• Agree to open the gate for goblin raiders.
• Poke the bird Nettie was healing to death during the dialogue.
• Intimidate or provoke during the confrontation between Ardin and Zevlor at Druid Grove.
• Choose to kill Kagha without trying to persuade her.
• When you Praise Lae’zel for the Interrogation of Zorru, Astarion will like this
• When Asharak asks to say a word to the Tiefling Children, say “Bad News Children, You are all going to die”

Blighted Village Proper and Druid Grove

• Crush the Tadpole that comes out of True Soul Edowin.
• Say “They practically worshipped us, that could be useful” after Edowin’s siblings leave.
• Tell Edowin’s siblings to find the beast that attacked them to take revenge.
• Crush the Tadpole

Blighted Village

• Try to persuade the goblin Guard outside the Blighted Village.
• Walk in on a bugbear and an ogre named Grukkoh and Buthir having sex in an abandoned barn the Blighted Village.
  – After walking in, tell Astarion it was fun.
• Ask for “Compensation for Effort” in dialogue with Barcus in the Blighted Village.
• Intimidate the Ornate Mirror in the Blighted Village into opening.
• Deliver the final blow to feezerk
• Pass the Very hard Persuasion check and hire the Ogres for free

Risen Road

• Agree to help tiefling Karlach from Tyr Followers.
• When Meeting, Paladin Cyrel says “Take the supplies”
• Kill the Githyanki patrol OR successfully persuade Lae’Zel to “play along” and pull off the deception.
• After purchasing Oskar, the artist, say he’s your slave.
• Tell the Gnoll Leader to feast on the other Gnolls

Sunlit Wetlands

• Kill Gandrel 
• Tell the two brothers they are on their own to find their sister Mayrina.
• Resurrect Mayrina’s husband and give her the wand. 
  – Right after that tell Astarion that it was funny.
• Laugh at Lorin by pretending that you are the monster he sees.
• Choose to spare Auntie Ethel when he surrenders during battle.
• When entering the swamp pass the check to see it for real, then baa at the red caps when you speak to them
• Let Astarian kill the gurr to the left of Auntie Ethel’s hut “Not a real vampire” then “they can sneak up” than “kill”
• After killing the hag use the wand to resurrect her husband, give her the wand then Astarians! Say its funny

Goblin Camp

• When Meeting Sentinel Olak in the Goblin Camp Entrance, Pass the Deceive/Nature option then say you “can’t be serious”, then fling poo at the guards.
• Boo Volo in the Goblin Camp when he is performing
• Kiss Novice Crusher’s foot in the Goblin Camp
• Use intimidation the 2nd time to force Novice Crusher to kiss your foot.
• After telling Novice Crusher “I’d Sooner spit in your face” and then winning the fight, make him kiss your foot.
• After telling Novice Crusher “I’d Sooner spit in your face” and then winning the fight, try to finish him off.
• When Krolla refuses to give your winnings for Chicken Chase, Use Illithid powers
• Agree to the Loviatar priest ritual
• Talk to Priestess Gut with Wyll and Attack
• Kill Priestess Gut in the Goblin Camp.
• Tell Abdirak you’re curious and agree to be tortured
• Telling Tracker Grikka you can get answers from the prisoner.
• Join Minthara for the Grove raid
• Tell Minthara the exact location of the grove
• Torture Liam for Spike without Wyll present.
• Attack the Goblin Camp. 
• Volunteer to torture Liam at Goblin Camp.
• Decline when Halsin asks to kill Goblin leaders.

Underdark

• Demand Boots in the dialogue with Tulla
• Agree to kill the Duergar for Myconid Sovereign.
• Fight the fake god Boooal in the Festering Cove OR Let the Koa-Toes bow to you as the Boooal’s chosen.

Camp

• During the First Long Rest in Evening, After speaking to Lae’zel talk to Shadowheart and tell her to keep cautious 
• Talk to Astarion and say you don’t wish to die then choose the knife option
• Decline the Devil’s invitation to remove your Tadpole.
• After the conversation with the devil, tell Astarion “We are not his playthings”
• The morning after the first tadpole dream, pass the automatic insight check, ask Astarion who he dreamed about, and pass the Persuasion Check
• Persuade him to share his dream with you, Say you’ll “watch his back”
• Decide to still want to use powers after the 2nd illithid dream
• Saying your choice, your powers after the 3rd dream
• Let Astarion suck your blood in Camp.
• Support Astarion in the dialogue with the team after the bite in the Camp.
• Tell Astarion that he can feed on enemies.
• Persuade him to share his dream with you.
  – Say you’ll “watch his back in the same dialogue.
• In the conversation with Shadowheart support Astarion’s idea to continue using the tadpole’s power.
• Say to Wyll that you are not going to let the dreams stop you from using Tadpoles’ power.
• Agree to share your bed/sleep with Astarion at the Tiefling party at Camp.
• Choose the option to “Bare your neck, inviting him” in the bed scene.
• At camp, prior to resting on night 1/2, when discussing preferred methods of death, either:
  – choose a method of death
  – tell him “If I die, I’ll take you with me.”
• After meeting Raphael, in the conversation with him tell him “We are not his playthings” 
• Give Astarion the Necromancy of Thay tome.
• Feed the Owlbear cub at the Camp.
• Decline when Halsin asks to kill Goblin leaders.
• Tell Shadowheart that they shouldn’t rush through unfamiliar territory on Night 1. 
• Tell Shadowheart you’d like to hear more about Shar at some point. 
• When asking Astarion about Casador tell him you got his back if he has yours
• Give the Necromancer Book to Astarion

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